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2 August 2021

My ex cheated and now I've caught him cheating on his new partner!

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “Stay out of it - it is none of your business. I appreciate that you went through a tough time with your ex ...
15 July 2021

My daughter-in-law accused me of doing things I haven't done; what should I do?

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “What a sad story. If it is exactly as you have explained and you have been rejected by your daughter-in-law and three grandchildren ...
12 July 2021

I gave my boyfriend an ultimatum: Have you got any advice?

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “I think you are right to lay down the law. You are 39 and at a crucial age if you want to settle ...
10 July 2021

I discovered my husband texting another woman...

“I fully understand your hurt and anger but you must move forward from this. It’s an old saying but it is a good one because it is so true - ...
18 June 2021

I'm no longer attracted to my partner of 19 years, should I leave him?

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “Sex is the glue that keeps most marriages together and it is impossible to overlook its importance to your future happiness. I do ...
17 June 2021

Can you be in love with two people at the same time?

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “Take it from me, most marriages are imperfect but basically good. You take the rough with the smooth and you ride out those ...
16 June 2021

Is his relationship with his ex inappropriate?

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “I really don’t think you need any advice from me. You have done exactly the right thing in dumping him and you have ...
15 June 2021

I need to know if he wants more from me- am I being selfish?

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “This is probably not what you want to hear but the thing you need to do more than anything at present is be ...
24 May 2021

What he wanted wasn't good for my mental health- was I right to leave?

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “Wow - what a mess!" "Let’s start with your ex-partner. You were together for almost 3 years which is a long time. I ...
23 May 2021

My granddad is dying- why hasn't my boyfriend been more supportive?

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “I think you need to view these recent difficulties in a wider context. This is not a new relationship: you have been with ...
22 May 2021

My partner is allergic to my cats- any advice on how we can see more of each other?

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “This is a tricky one. I was allergic to cats when I was younger and had a similar reaction to them as your ...
21 May 2021

How can I still love the man I met online knowing what I do now?

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “I’m very sorry to hear about your problems. The fairly obvious solution here is to forget about this man who clearly is a ...

23 December 2020

How can I trust my girlfriend after what I read on her phone?

Relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “In answer to your question at the end: get the hell out. This woman has already messed you around countless times and will continue to ...
22 December 2020

How can I accept this change in our family dynamic after 42 years?

Relationship expert Jessican Leoni said: “I really feel for you and can totally understand why you are not as excited by this huge development in your family as everyone else. ...
11 December 2020

Someone in my husband's family really hates me- any advice?

Relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “I would love to know more about the background to this row and why this resentment from your sister-in-law has built up so much that ...
10 December 2020

I have made sacrifices, why won't my husband do the same?

Relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “This is a really tough one. I think there is very little chance of you persuading your husband, at this stage in his life and ...
9 December 2020

It's been ten years since we last spoke- why now?

Relationship expert Jessican Leoni said: “You need to steer well clear of this guy - he has trouble written all over him. I am surprised that you have contacted him ...
8 December 2020

My girlfriend only wants one thing from our relationship- should I settle or push for more?

Relationship expert Jessican Leoni said: “My answer will be dictated a lot by your ages and the circumstances of your lives, and sadly you don’t give those details. If you ...
6 December 2020

Does the fault lie with me or him?

Firstly, don’t beat yourself up over this and please don’t over think the situation. Naturally you’re upset and feel used, especially now he has ended the relationship saying he felt ...
2 December 2020

I've thought about it for eight years, should I do something about it?

Relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “I think it is inevitable that you are going to sleep with this other guy. If not him, then someone else in the not too ...
1 December 2020

How can I get over what I found in my boyfriend's emails?

Relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “I have every sympathy with your boyfriend here. It sounds to me that he has handled this situation brilliantly and is worthy of your trust. ...
30 November 2020

My boyfriend's behaviour is dangerous, what can I do?

Relationship expert Jessican Leoni said: “I think the most important line in your letter is the first one: ‘I love my boyfriend.’ The second most important line comes shortly after ...
23 November 2020

Is my boyfriend addicted or is he avoiding me?

I’m so sorry to hear of your dilemma it must be very difficult for you, especially as you have a young child together. If, as you say your partner is ...

23 November 2020

Am I being unreasonable to ask for this one thing for my baby?

Relationship expert Jessican Leoni said: “I can see both sides of this argument. You are approaching the most momentous time of your life - you are perfectly entitled to bring ...