Everyone thinks finding love is hard.  Don’t get me wrong, I’m the first to admit that urban dating and the search for Mr Right isn’t always easy. Often, it’s fraught with many highs and lows. That’s said, here’s why finding love can be easy:

How To Date

How To Date

Population explosion

Many singletons claim that all the ‘good men are taken.’  And, that there aren’t enough men out there.  Don’t believe it. In fact, there are more men than women on this planet.  Right now, the global population is seven billion approx. and growing! With the ratio of male to female standing at 1.06.  The odds are actually in your favour.

More platforms and channels

There are now more ways to meet men than ever before.  You no longer have to rely on your local village dance.  Use all the channels and platforms available to you.  Online dating and apps, make it easier to connect with men, whom you otherwise may not have met.  Try everything, there’s nothing to lose.

The power of choice

Men come in all shapes and sizes, if you don’t ‘click’ with one, it doesn’t matter, simply carry on dating until you do ‘click’. Since, we’re all compatible with two thousand people each,   that’s more men than you can date in a lifetime

The pool continues to grow

New men join dating sites and app every day.  If it didn’t appear yesterday, he might appear today.  Every day is a new opportunity to find love.

At your fingertips

Dating sites are apps are ‘always on.’  Which means, you can check matches and messages in the comfort of your own home, with your face mask on! How’s that for multi-tasking.

Happen anytime

Love can happen anywhere and at any time. Simply stay open to the possibilities and opportunities.  And always be prepared. Don’t leave your home without your favourite lipstick and heels! You don’t want to be caught off guard.

Men are everywhere

Look around and you’ll see men everywhere.  I’m not saying they all qualify as  your‘Mr Right.’  Do your part and go to where the men are. Otherwise, how is he supposed to find you?

It’s in your mind

If you think no good men exist, they don’t.  Thankfully, you are free to change your self-talk at any time!

You can never date too much

The more effort you make, the easier it becomes to find love.  Sign up to everything! Stay in the game and never give up.

Practise makes perfect

The more you date, the easier it becomes.  Keep setting up dates!

India Kang is a dating and relationship coach and author of two bestselling books ‘Why Men Ask Dumb Dating Questions,’ and ‘How to Date – Single Girls’ Dating Manual.’  Available via Amazon


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